Happy Valentine's Day!
Ah LOVE! It's such a wonderful thing isn't it? The rush, the flush, the butterflies in the stomach... the stress?
When you must remember the chocolate, the flowers, the gifts. Valentine's Day follows Christmas as the second highest card-sending holiday. Yeah, I guess it can be stressful.
But when we begin to realize life is about relationships, and we learn the steps to making those relationships better, we can start relieving the stress.
How are your relationships? The Four Sisters Groove is here to help you build
better gay relationships. Let's get started with The Sisters'
Quiz.
The Sisters' Quiz
Relationships are complex and a lot like dancing. Yet everyone knows good relationships require clear and open communication. But how do you communicate clearly to someone who at times seems so VERY different? As much as we'd like these skills alone to dramatically and instantaneously improve relationships, we know relationships are a complex web of expectations, needs, and interpersonal skills.
However, an improvement in one part of the relationship can make other aspects of the relationship easier to manage. The Sisters' Quiz can help.
More...Little Women
The Golden Girls
Designing Women
Sex and the City
Four Sisters' Groove!
You're probably familiar with the TV shows or the book by Louisa
May Alcott...
but what is the
Four Sisters Groove?
Just like the characters in a sitcom or novel, the Four Sisters depict personality
interractions common in every human relationship. Much like the way you could
count on Blanche or Samantha having a new man around, you can count on the
Four Sisters Groove to help you learn the steps to building better gay relationships.
Take the Sisters'
Quiz right now. Find out if you are a Katie,
Stacey,
Gina,
or Tina?
Do you wanna dance?
No, you can't make other people change (and frankly, why would you?), but an interesting thing happens when you make small changes - behavior changes that make it easier for others to relate to you: you get more in sync -- a better groove. Over time, the accumulation of temporary and situational changes improves the relationship in subtle, lasting ways.
So the dancers become more fluid, like their every move is perfectly timed.
How can you improve your communication? Learn The Sisters' Groove and take steps to improve your relationship. First, find your Sister in the Sisters' Quiz.
