Practice Makes Perfect
Saturday night and Hunter wants to dance. He cranks up his screaming diva and wiggles his little butt to a beat he thinks he hears, but isn't really there. The poor boy has no rhythm.
He's thump-thump challenged.
Or maybe you've slid on your cowboy heels and headed down to the watering hole and watched Liz and Sheila two-stepping and wondered how they did it so smoothly. It seemed as if every muscle, every sinew moved perfectly timed.
When you think about it, relationships and dancing have a lot in common: for instance, they both require hard work to get right, and they both can be terribly painful when they go wrong.
Some people do have a slight natural edge over others, yet it takes practice to really hone those moves. An expert is someone who has worked so hard it appears easy to do.
So the groove becomes smooth like every move
is perfectly timed, because practice makes perfect.
Start practicing. Take the Sisters' Quiz right now.
Dance
like no one is watching,
love
like you've never been hurt,
sing
like no one is listening,
and live like it's heaven on earth.
-- Anonymous
Little Women
The Golden Girls
Designing Women
Sex and the City
Four Sisters' Groove!
You're probably familiar with the TV shows or the book by Louisa
May Alcott...
but what is the
Four Sisters Groove?
Just like the characters in a sitcom or novel, the Four Sisters depict personality interractions common in every human relationship. More...
Much like the way you could count on Blanche or Samantha having a new man around, you can count on the Four Sisters Groove to help you learn the steps to building better gay relationships.
Take the Sisters' Quiz right now. Find out if you are a Katie, Stacey, Gina, or Tina?
Do you wanna dance?
No, you can't make other people change (and frankly, why would you?), but an interesting thing happens when you make small behavior changes that make it easier for others to relate to you: you get more in sync -- a better groove. Over time, the accumulation of temporary and situational changes improves the relationship in subtle, lasting ways.
So the dancers become more fluid, like their every move is perfectly timed.
How can you improve your communication? Learn The Sisters' Groove and take steps to improve your relationship. First, find your Sister in the Sisters' Quiz.
